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願意留下來跟你爭吵的人,才是真正愛你的人!

Sunday, March 19th, 2006

願意留下來跟你爭吵的人,才是真正愛你的人!

常常我們認為會跟一個人吵架一定是跟他感情不好,其實不然,最容易跟家人吵架,最常跟情人吵架,最會跟好朋友吵架。 

想想,原來最常跟我們有爭執的人竟然都是跟我們最親密的人,而能跟我們發生爭執的人也對我們有一定的瞭解,所以有人常 『吵架』也是一種溝通,而願意跟你吵架的人,才是真正想瞭解你的人。 

有時候我們與人發生爭執時會『算了』,或者『不了』,這兩句話其實都是殺傷力很強的話,代表著你不想把你的想法跟他,不想讓對方瞭解你,也代表你們的感情會停留在原地。 

有時兩個人爭執,忽然聽到了一句話『我是為你好』;在感情的世界裡,個人都很自私,有人常會對你『我是為你好』,這其實是很不負責任的法, 因為我們會把自己的觀念加諸在別人身上,為他人決定一些事,但是再想想,對對方來,你的方法真的好嗎?

你為他決定事情,但是要負責的人卻是他,這是很不公平的,唯有他自己才能決定什麼是對自己最好,若是錯誤的決定也才不會有埋怨,也才能對自己負責。
      
『通常願意留下來跟你爭吵的人,才是真正愛你的人。』之前聽到陶子在節目中了一句話"個人天生就是不一樣"這句話讓我突然領悟了很多事……..

因為不一樣~~~~自然而然個人所看的所想的也不會相同 不要怪別人不懂你~~~換個立場~~其實我們也不敢自己有多了解他人"無聲"是一種無形的、最遠的距離,若能從吵架中表達出自己的想法~~

總比大家把話悶在心裡都不出來的好,但千萬要避免在衝動時出傷害對方的言語有些話~~~一旦出口~~~就很難收回了……….

一份關心,不需要長篇大論,短短的一句,也可以很暖。一個知已,不需要日見面,心和心的維繫,也可以很長久。

淡淡的表達,是一種哲學,也是"一種美"

世界上沒有陌生人   只有還沒認識的朋友

把這份情永遠傳下去   讓這個社會更加 

Thursday, March 16th, 2006

l bought a NOKIA handphone last August… but after no more than half of year..l found that my hp screen got some problem… so..l decided to take the hp to repair at NOKIA centre… When l arrived Nokia Centre, one of the stuff there told me to take back the hp after an hour…. 1 hour past… when l back to Nokia Centre…the stuff told me that my hp maybe need to try to clean up….and asked me to come back around two- three hours…. okay… then l back to the Nokia Centre again….around 7pm…. at the time, the stuff told me that my hp was facing a serious problem…so she told me they suggested for modile 220( first of all l not really understand what’s that mean…) and then she said if after the repairation teh hp still can’t back to normal then need another modile 200 …(then l asked her what problem with my hp…she still repaeated the same speech, then l asked her directly …izzit l have to paid RM220 first and then maybe l need to paid another RM200…).at last she said yes… so…l decided not to repair…l better use it coz it still can use just the screen problem(sometime not clear)….after l took back my hp ..l found that my hp doesn’t work anymore….. then l asked the stuff…she said my hp was seriouly damage…btu l argued to her that before l sent the hp to u..it still in condition..l still can use it to make call, sms, capture photos, filming…..but NOW….it TOTALLY BROKEN… then the stuff said they can’t predict what will going happen after they celan up the hp..it might be broken…the l said why before you decided to clean up my hp..they supposed told me the possibility after clean up the hp…but .unfortunately tehy didn’t:( My hp still under warranty..but they just like ignoring it….after my hp doesn’t work anymore….they even never try to help me to make it recover as l sent to here before…. the stuff was really irresponsebility…..and l was really disappointed of NOKIA customer services….!! Who going to tell me …what l can do for my own right?????